If you choose to be ‘interesting’, you will likely make sure you talk about yourself and you will miss the opportunity to show respect (a personal value)įaced with a difficult meeting? Perhaps the deliberate mindset of ‘resilient’ will serve you well, help you surf the waves of challenge coming your way Examples:Īs you meet someone new, if you choose to be ‘interested’ instead of ‘interesting’, you will keep the conversational focus on the other person, you ask a lot of questions and you will gain terrific information that the other person considers to be important about them. The fit with Modelling the Way? A deliberate mindset operates like a personal value: it anchors what you say and do. If a deliberate mindset can become a lifelong habit, then we know you will be more successful than going into meetings and work sessions without an express attitudinal purpose … which makes you more vulnerable to having someone hijack your attitude, or to having an uncontrolled, emotionally-unintelligent reaction. Want to comment and share your own? Hit the button, read the blogs, offer up some of your ‘self’! here’s an example of what you can find on the post page:īlog 1: Deliberate Mindset? A suggestion for a mental habit … always asking yourself “what should my mindset be, here and now?” Mindset comes from the Buddhist concept of “mindfulness”, it is all about focus and attention in the present AND it turns out it also helpful to your future ability to recollect and retain what actually happened. I emphasize about thought, self esteem and confidence because I am truly convinced that be secure or confident is the main and most important thing we need to learn in order to be able to accomplish everything I hope it can be helpful and benefit somebody.Experiences, thoughts, insights, perspectives, personal stories/principles/maxims, different quotes … on Model the Way are posted here. "People only see what they are prepared to see." Never, never accept, (not even for a second) negative thoughts that take you away from your peace, happiness and your dreams. Take control of your life! Monitor, constantly and daily, your thoughts and guide them toward your goals. Maybe think of it this way: a car's wheels are to the tires what confidence is to our achievements. All you pretend to do or obtain will be in vain. Attitude is everything!Īll the knowledge or education you acquire doesn't matter, if you don't trust and believe in yourself. Being confident consists of believing in yourself - that you are sure you will achieve whatever you set in your mind, regardless of all the obstacles you have in front of you, even if we don't have the required tools. Thoughts of insecurity, uncertainty, fear, and failure build a weak, negative and insecure mind, therefore a weak personality.īe sure about yourself, or better yet be confident, for it is the main and first step all of us need to acquire what we want. The more we hold them, the stronger they become and the more they control our actions. All thoughts we retain in our minds influence our personality and motives. What we think, believe and imagine about ourselves determines exactly our personality and the security with which we cope with life. And it is continuously working in every human life." Like creates like, and like attracts like. The type of thoughts we entertain both creates and draws conditions that crystallize about it, conditions exactly the same in nature as is the thought that gives them form, thoughts are forces and each create of its kind, whether we realize it of not. "Thought is at the bottom of each progress or retrogression, of all success or failure, of all is desirable or undesirable in human life. Watch your character it becomes your destiny."
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